Preparing For Divorce

Eric J. BroderA divorce is a major event that will resonate across many different parts of your life. Your financial picture will potentially change dramatically. If you have minor children, the amount of time you will be able to spend with them will change as well. Before filing, one needs to fully understand that divorce is in fact what is wanted or needed. After exhausting all appropriate methods to maintain the relationship, proper planning is crucial. Failure to adequately plan for your divorce can create a number of potential issues that may impede the ultimate result.

Westport And Greenwich Divorce Attorneys Serving Clients Across Connecticut

At Broder Orland Murray & DeMattie LLC, our attorneys have advised hundreds of clients at the beginning stages of divorce. Prior to filing for divorce, it can be very beneficial to undertake several actions, including preparing your financial documents. It is important to have copies of all information about your assets and your spouse’s assets. This may include:

  • Prior tax returns
  • Credit card statements
  • Bank account information
  • Business operation documents (including corporate tax returns)

This information is critical in establishing the value of the marital estate, which in turn will determine the equitable distribution of the estate, as well as related issues such as spousal and child support. These documents are especially important in situations involving couples with high net worth.

Preparing Children For Divorce

For couples with children, it is crucial to consider the impact it will have on them. If a divorce is imminent, children need to be prepared. This may include direct, careful, compassionate, and fair communication, or therapy and counseling.

Contact Broder Orland Murray & DeMattie LLC

Our law firm is known across Connecticut for its considerate, intelligent approach to guiding our clients through the divorce process. Our lawyers work tirelessly to accomplish our clients’ specific goals. By gathering documentation prior to filing a divorce, you can facilitate the divorce process. Call 203-222-4949 or e-mail us to schedule a consultation.

  • Avatar Courtenay Crawford ★★★★★ 3 months ago
  • Courtenay Crawford ★★★★★
    Nicole DiGiose is top notch! I worked with her over the past year on my divorce and while this type of experience is never fun, Nicole made a difficult situation easier. She is extremely knowledgeable. thoughtful and lays everything out … More in a very comprehensive manor. I have already given her name to others and I will cont. to recommend Nicole - she goes above and beyond and is an absolute Super Star Attorney!
  • Avatar Genna Garver ★★★★★ 4 months ago
  • Genna Garver ★★★★★
    I've known Eric Broder professionally for many years and have also worked with him personally as a client. Not only is he a strong advocate of the law, he is also a pleasure to work with. He listens, explains, keeps clients involved … More as desired and--most importantly--he responds and gets matters done! His style is to lead with professionalism, which brings a much appreciated sense of calm and control even to otherwise adversarial matters. Eric also has a strong technical ability to understand complex issues, like valuation of partnership assets and other illiquid assets. Literally one of the nicest attorneys I've dealt with over 20+ years of practice.
  • Avatar Chris Stella ★★★★★ 3 weeks ago
  • Chris Stella ★★★★★
    Top Notch!! Attorneys Eric Broder & Nicole DiGiose are hands down the BEST you can get in Fairfield. They are both super efficient, caring, and on top of your case thru the whole process. Both Eric and Nicole professionally navigated … More me through the entanglement of procedures and I always felt they had my back since day one while dealing with opposing counsel. I am super satisfied with their performance & recommend them to anyone seeking a family law attorney.
  • Avatar Seth Balasny ★★★★★ 4 months ago
  • Seth Balasny ★★★★★
    Nicole was amazing! She held my hand and walked me through every step of the way. I could not have asked for more in an attorney through such a difficult time in my life. Nicole was always quick to respond to all of my questions and always … More available when needed.
    I highly recommend Broder, Orland Murray & DeMattie.
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  • Geoffrey Orth ★★★★★
    Nicole was a professional and attentive attorney who always made herself available. She brought clarity and level-headedness to sometimes stressful situations. Overall, happy with my experience with Nicole and the broader Broder Orland … More Murray and DeMattie team.
  • Avatar Patricia Mennitt ★★★★★ 10 months ago
  • Patricia Mennitt ★★★★★
    Jaime was with me every step of the way. She supported me in all of my decisions and provided with names of experts that could help me with other aspects of the divorce such as a certified divorce financial analyst.
    Both Jaime and Eric
    … More made sure I knew all of my options and the consequences of any of my choices both financially and emotionally. They neither pushed me to go to court nor discouraged me; they did provide the pros and cons.
    They treated me with respect and never talked down to me. They understood the emotional aspects of coping with a contentious divorce. Their experience working with clients similar to my ex-husband was invaluable.
    I have a child with special needs. This complicates the divorce process. Jaime has experience in the ramifications this has on divorce and helped me navigate the necessary negotiations.
  • Avatar Teresa Rainieri ★★★★★ 10 months ago
  • Teresa Rainieri ★★★★★
    Nicole DiGiose was retained for an emergency situation. Her empathy and understanding of my priorities offered sustenance to myself and my family. Nicole’s representation and knowledge defended against unjust accusations and facilitated … More a resolution within a timely manner.
  • Avatar Rob Petersen ★★★★★ a year ago
  • Rob Petersen ★★★★★
    Nicole DiGoise represented me in a case where the gap to reach a settlement was pretty wide at the beginning. There is nobody that I can recommend more highly. Nicole is highly accountable, responsive, disciplined, reasonable and compassionate. … More And Nicole knows the law. Among other things, Nicole has run three marathons. She will be with you every step of your journey. She also knows when to engage the partners (in my case Carole Orland) who provided a deep bench of legal expertise and experience I know I couldn't find anyplace else. Nicole is a David who you can put against any Goliath. If I could give Nicole DiGoise and Carole Orland six stars, I would.
  • Avatar Amy Peterson ★★★★★ a year ago
  • Amy Peterson ★★★★★
    I switched after being treated horribly by another law firm. I told Carol Orland and Chris DeMatte that I just wanted to be treated as a human being. The level of care that the team treated me with was well beyond my expectations! I … More trusted the team with strategy and they kept the negotiations on a tight time frame that was simply unachievable by others. They were the quintessential professionals, and always one step ahead. I regret not having hired the team in the first place.
  • Avatar Ted Seides ★★★★★ a year ago
  • Ted Seides ★★★★★
    Eric and Nicole were terrific to work with, understood the issues, and got us to a conclusion. What more can you ask for?!!!
  • Avatar Damon Rein ★★★★★ 10 months ago
  • Damon Rein ★★★★★
    Eric Broder proved to be an excellent attorney. He was incredibly professional, responsive, super-smart, kind and ultimately got me a good, fair divorce settlement. I could not recommend him more highly.
  • Avatar amanda aaron ★★★★★ 2 years ago
  • amanda aaron ★★★★★
    Eric Broder and his firm are phenomenal. I refer clients with complicated legal issues involving custody and finances and he is able to thoroughly and thoughtfully work to accomplish clients' goals. I can't recommend him enough. … More His partner, Carole, is also fantastic; she is extremely capable and always prepared.